
Event Safety and Inclusivity
Definition of Vetting
In the BDSM and kink world, **vetting** is the process of getting to know someone and assessing their intentions, experience, boundaries, and compatibility before engaging in activities, relationships, or events. It’s a way to ensure that everyone involved shares a clear understanding of expectations, consent, and safety.
For newcomers, vetting is like a mutual interview—it helps both parties feel comfortable and secure while creating a foundation of trust. This process is especially important in BDSM because of the physical, emotional, and psychological dynamics involved. Vetting can include conversations about preferences, limits, health considerations, and experience levels to ensure that all interactions are safe, consensual, and enjoyable.

Vetting Process and Event Policy
To ensure a safe, inclusive, and respectful environment for all attendees, everyone interested in attending an event hosted by Master Lee is required to complete a vetting process. This step is essential and applies to all participants without exception.
Key Details of the Vetting Process:
- The vetting form will be sent via email and is limited to one response only to protect your privacy.
For those who prefer, the vetting process can be conducted in person before attending an event.
Event Privacy and Policies:
- All events are private and designed to foster a secure and comfortable space for exploration and connection.
- Personalized name tags will be created and must be worn during events to help maintain a welcoming and organized environment.
This process is a vital part of maintaining the integrity, safety, and community-focused values of our gatherings. Thank you for your understanding and cooperation as we work together to create a positive and enriching experience for all.
Reason for the Vetting Process
The vetting process is essential to ensure the safety, comfort, and integrity of the spaces and events hosted by Master Lee. This process serves several critical purposes:
- Safety and Security:
Vetting helps verify the identity, intentions, and experience levels of participants. By understanding each individual's background and goals, we can minimize risks and ensure that everyone present respects the boundaries, consent, and principles of the community. - Community Integrity:
This process ensures that attendees align with the values of inclusivity, respect, and mutual understanding. It helps maintain a supportive and welcoming environment for all participants, regardless of their experience level or identity. - Personalized Experience:
Gathering information through vetting allows for a tailored approach to events and interactions. It helps ensure that activities, discussions, and dynamics suit the preferences, boundaries, and comfort levels of all attendees. - Confidentiality and Privacy:
By conducting the vetting process via a single email response or an in-person meeting, we prioritize the privacy and confidentiality of every participant. This fosters trust and ensures sensitive information is handled with care. - Establishing Trust:
The vetting process builds trust between attendees and event organizers by demonstrating a commitment to creating a safe, respectful, and enriching environment for all involved.
This thoughtful and intentional approach allows us to uphold the highest standards of safety, respect, and inclusivity, making every event a meaningful and positive experience for everyone.